2017 Life-Long Learning: A Dog’s Love

    Friday night we almost lost our dog.  We’ve had a little forty-pound Beagle mix for nine years.  We seriously got our dog off Craigslist from a guy who said he was going to Afghanistan. We hadn’t had a dog in 14 years.  We had a big, hairy 85 lb. Golden Retriever when the kids were small, and I missed him but enjoyed not having to clean up after him all the time.  My husband who grew up in the country with dogs had to have another and we adopted Athena.

She has been a joy.  She came into a house of old people at five months old and fit right in.  She is the queen, no other animals to share with, and she just lays around under the air conditioner.  The three of us go for walks when the weather is nice and then return to the artificially cool house.  She loves to lay belly up under a ceiling fan.

We’d bathed her and given her the flea and tick treatment on her neck along with a heart-worm prevention pill like we do every month.  We’d taken a long walk that morning and all came in hot and ready for some cool air.  Hours later she was sick.  She barely moved off her bed.  I checked her breathing to be sure a few times.  She acted like just rolling over was a chore.  I know she was in the same position for several hours.

The vet checked her blood and the only thing that was off was a liver enzyme. She came home with pills to take daily for a few months.  He thought it might have been brought on by the heat.  I wondered about the treatments after her bath.  We asked about the toads around the house and he seemed to think they weren’t that dangerous.  Whatever it was, I think the end was near.  I slept part of the night on the floor beside her so I could feel her breathing on me.

Today, she is a new puppy!  It is amazing how quickly they can go down and how quickly they feel better.  My babies were much the same way, sick one minute and well the next. 

Anyway, we took a short walk this morning so no one got overheated and may do that from now on.  Maybe take a quick one in the morning and another in the evening.  We all need our exercise but not at the risk of heat stroke!  She’ll be checked at the vets every month to see how things go and she’ll take her pills.  They are chewable and she seems to like them.

I learned just how important the little dog has become to me this week.  I also learned none of us are as young as we used to be, and heat can have its effects on a body.  Do you have pets?  Are they like family? 

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2019 Life-Long Learning: Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot!

    I spent this weekend with my daughter on a Mother-Daughter trip to Wichita.  We’ve made different trips once a year for a few years and this one was supposed to be Mother’s Day weekend.  But I-35 was flooded so we cancelled.  We remade this trip for the last weekend in June and it got HOT!  Horribly hot. Near 100° and humidity above 50%.  My body doesn’t take the heat the way it used to.

I learned that the two-hour trip to Wichita is an easy drive and finding the downtown area is a breeze.  We spent a lot of the weekend in Old Town which has been redon and is marvelous.  We went to the Museum of World Treasures and walked all three floors staring at unique items from ancient history to history of 20 years ago.  I’d love to do it again.

We planned to see the Frank Lloyd Write Allen House and were not aware you had to buy advance tickets to get in.  It was locked up on Saturday.  We’ll try again and next time be more organized.

This morning we visited Botanica gardens.  They were beautiful!  I was amazed at the plants and architecture – but did I mention it was hot?  Whew!  The morning shower was long gone when we got back in the car.

The highlight of the trip might have been my daughter’s reaction to being unable to sleep.  She is a “take no prisoners kind of therapist” in her regular life and a mother of teenagers.  Our hotel was not the best.  Small and lacking in many areas.  There were lots of people in large groups there for something and after we went to bed people ran up and down the hall laughing and shouting.  I could not sleep for a few hours.  After I finally got to sleep she woke up to the noise in the tiny hallway between rooms.  After listening to it for 2 hours, trying to call the front desk only to find out the phone didn’t work, at 5:30 she threw open the door and yelled “Enough! You’ve been at this for a least 2 hours (actually it was all night long) and people are trying to sleep! Now be quiet!” You could have heard a pin drop.  The partiers right outside our door went away.  Of course, we ran into them at breakfast.  But we got a little sleep.

All in all, it was a great weekend and I want to go back and take my husband.  Sometime when it is not so hot.  I learned not to vacation in the heat of summer.  Did I mention it was hot? 

What did you do this weekend?

 

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2019 Life Long Learning: A New Author!

    I recently met an author at the Nescatunga Arts Festival named N. Jade Gray.  She was a friendly person and we quickly found out we both wrote for The Wild Rose Press.  So, we had something in common other than just being local authors. 

Jade writes historical fiction and some fantasy.  I am currently reading Raider of her Heart, a time travel fantasy set in the present and 1863.  A young cavalry soldier is sent to Lawrence, Kansas to warn the mayor of an impending raid on his town.  He is shot along the way and when he wakes up, he’s not in Kansas anymore.  Well, he’s in Kansas, but it is not 1863. It is 2019.

I love the premise that this young man feels a sense of duty to get back to the world he left and finish his goal, but with a bullet wound and no idea how to get home, things aren’t looking good for him.  And then there is the blooming romance between star-crossed lovers.  She doesn’t trust him, or her feelings, and he knows he doesn’t belong in this world.  He must go home.  But the love blooms none-the-less.

Pick up a copy of Raider of her Heart and if you love the book, leave Jade a review.  I know you’ll love it.

What are you reading this week?

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2019 Life Long Learning: Learning to be a Father

    I’ve been married to the same man for 47 years.  Yes, we are spring chickens. He became a father maybe before he was ready, but he was thrilled both times.  We had two children when we were young, and then quit having kids when we were still young.  One of each and the bedrooms were filled up, so we quit.  But they were the light of our lives.  We didn’t have a penny to our names, and they were the entertainment. We learned to be parents.

Today he is a grandfather and still hanging around with us.  The kids have kids and lives of their own, but we see them as often as possible.

Tomorrow we’re cooking hamburgers and hotdogs (his request) with as many of the family as we can get here.  Everyone is busy. I’ll bake him a cake in the morning and share it with the other fathers in our family. Cake from a box and hotdogs – nuthin’ but the best!  But it’s what he wants. He’s easy to please when it comes to food.  That is good since I’m not a world renown chef.

He mowed the grass today and we’ll cook the burgers and dogs on the grill.  Not much has changed in the last 47 years.  He still likes the simple things.

Happy Father’s Day to the father of my children.  And happy Father’s Day to all the fathers out there. 

What are you doing for Father’s Day?

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2019 Life-Long Learning: Author Laura Boon – Tenses and Tennis

   My guest this morning is Laura Boon.  She hails from Sydney, Australia, though she’s lived all over the world.  Laura is a fellow “Rose” writing romance for The Wild Rose Press.  Please help me in welcoming, Laura Boon!

Hi Peggy, thanks for hosting me on your blog today.

I just finished reading American Witch* by Thea Harrison. According to one of the protagonists, the secret to their villain’s eternal youth is his theft of other witches’ power. Fortunately contemporary scientists offer us another alternative, at least as far as a youthful mind is concerned. The secret to staying as sharp as a tack is life-long learning. Apparently learning new stuff develops new neural pathways and connections and provides the best defense against dementia. So next time you’re having a really wretched day, knee-deep in stuff you don’t understand, think about what great exercise your brain is getting and smile.

I immigrated in my forties – and then decided to finally, finally settle my butt in a chair and write the stories I had always dreamed of penning. I felt like I was frying neural pathways rather than building them, but the science says otherwise. I’m going to be very disappointed if I end up suffering from Alzheimers.

Tenses and tennis have run side by side through the roads of my life. English was my favorite subject at school. Tennis is our family sport, and I’ve been playing since I was ten years old. I was a club player not a professional, but one way or the other, I’ve put in a lot of time on the court. In April, I picked up a racket for the first time in six years. I was pleasantly surprised to discover I could still make contact with the ball following my mom’s advise – “Play from memory,” she says if any of us complain about being out of practise. I’m older and slower than I used to be so I’ve had to adapt my game to counteract “mean” opponents set on playing lethal drop shots. On the plus side, I’m less nervous than I used to be – it’s amazing how much more creative and inventive one is when operating from a place of calm curiosity rather than frenetic worry. And how much more fun the journey is.

Experience has taken me down a different path when it comes to pen, paper and keyboard. My anxiety manifested in a different way. In this area, I had no family role models or experts to call upon for help. I could say I haven’t been writing (with publication in mind) for nearly as long as I’ve played tennis, and it’s true that I only started in earnest about seven years ago after a couple of false starts earlier in my life. However, it’s also true that I wrote around my desire for years. Instead of writing fiction, I wrote newsletter copy, press releases and essays, book reviews and non-fiction articles. Calling up the courage to follow my dreams meant learning a bunch of new skills – how to convey character, create plot twists, describe a landscape, and maintain tension to name but a few. It’s been such fun!

“Do something that scares you every day,” they say. Writing scares me. Will I be able to translate what’s in my head onto the page? Will readers enjoy it? It’s a tightrope dance between fear and exhilaration – and it that doesn’t build neural pathways, I don’t know what will.

My new release is the Deerbourne Inn novella Lion Dancing for Love. His love died. Her love cheated. Can two broken hearts learn to trust again?

Licking her wounds after a bad relationship, San Diego accountant Caitlyn Summers travels to Willow Springs to help her friend gear up for the annual Maple Sugar Ball. She isn’t planning on staying long, but one encounter with the delicious Corey Duncan has her re-evaluating her plans.

Corey swore off love when his wife Annie died from breast cancer. Caitlyn is too young, too citified, and vibrates with a passion and energy that will upend the safe, comfortable rhythm of his life. Corey has to choose between playing it safe and taking a risk on love. Caitlyn needs to find the patience to let Corey lead. If not, the Maple Sugar Ball might end in a sticky mess, instead of a slow dance with the man who has captured her heart. Find it at Amazon US and other online retailers. Find me online via my blog or Facebook page and on Twitter, Instagram, GoodReads, Bookbub and Amazon.

Thanks for stopping by and happy reading everyone.

* Highly recommended, especially if you love paranormal romance.

Thank you, Laura and pick up a copy of Lion Dancing for Love – and leave her a review!

 

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2019 Life-Long Learning: The Deerbourne Inn Series

    I recently e-published a novella with The Wild Rose Press, Witches’ Cliff, along with several other very talented authors. So far I count 11 novellas set at the same Vermont inn all with different stories to tell. I’m sure there are more to come.

Originally the publisher put out a call for novellas with a setting in mind.  Any genre was welcome and any of their stable of authors could pitch their idea for their stories.  I was lucky enough to be one of the ones chosen to add to the story of the inn.  The fun part about it is seeing all the ideas other authors came up with.  There are fantasy stories, romance, suspense, historical fiction and others.  It is amazing what one little inn can conjure up over the years.

The Deerbourne Inn series is available in electronic format only and you can find it on Amazon, Kobo, Barnes & Noble, and iBooks, Here is a link to The Wild Rose Press website to see all the books so far.  Click on the one you like, and it will take you to Amazon where you can purchase it for only $1.99. https://www.thewildrosepress.com/deerbourne-inn-series

Witches’ Cliff is a fantasy set at Halloween about a modern-day woman and her connection to the witch trials of the past.  There are so many stories you may have trouble choosing which ones to read.

Check out the Deerbourne Inn series and see what you think.  As always leave a review if you enjoy the story.

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2019 Life-Long Learning: The Oklahoma Standard

    I’ve gotten off the track of life-long learning in the last few weeks, but I feel I learn something new every day.  So, to get back on track, I wanted you to know I am trying to learn to write poetry.  Now that’s putting myself out there to say something like that on the internet where nothing ever really goes away.  But I have some help.  I have the Enid Writers Club and one poet in particular, Jim Arnold, who is always trying to encourage me to write poetry.  He has even gone so far as to write prose to show that old dogs can learn new tricks.

So, I’ve tried.  The word tried should be all in caps.  Here it is.  Let me have it!  Help me critique this thing of beauty (ha!).  Lately with the weather I’ve had some inspiration.

The Oklahoma Standard

Redbuds glow fuchsia across prairies of cedar and wildflowers,

Rust cliffs ooze mud above emerald wheat and lemon-yellow canola.

But the colors of the prairie pale in comparison to the spirit of the people.

The Oklahoma standard is not just neighbor helping neighbor after a tornado,

But the never-fold spirit is the norm every day on every corner,

Bright as an Oklahoma prairie after a rain.

What do you think?  I need to go back to school, right?  I really don’t know much about poetry, there are so many kinds.  I think this is free verse.

But as I said with the weather in the last few weeks – tornados, flooding, bridges and dams collapsing or being damaged – I still believe in the Oklahoma standard.  We are a resilient people.  We have to be.  I came to Enid, Oklahoma from the bootheel of Missouri when I was seven years old.  We came in the middle of a hot, dry August and mother cried as we pulled into town.  Where were the green rolling hills she’d grown up in.  Mom and Dad were from northeast Arkansas and hadn’t moved very far from home to Missouri.  But they learned to love this place as I have. 

So, wrote a poem.  I’m a writer, that’s what I do.  It is a good outlet for all the shock and awe I’ve seen lately.  I have learned a lot in the years I’ve been on this planet and the most important thing I’ve learned is to pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and start all over – because you will fall again and again.  And while you’re at it, help the guy next to you. It is the Oklahoma standard.

Help me with the poetry.

 

 

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2019 Life-Long Learning: Tornado Season – Oklahoma’s Fifth Season

    Spring in Oklahoma!  If you’ve lived here long, or even if you haven’t, you know why Oklahoma was given the nickname “Tornado Alley.”  Some years are worse than others.  The above picture is a free stock photo, not my own.  I am not one of the Oklahoman’s who run out to video tornadoes as they sail over. I have great respect for the giants. The funnel pictured above could cause damage, but at least it isn’t a mile wide like some have been and it appeared with enough daylight to see it, not in the dark.

This weekend has been eventful in some places. May 3, 1999 and May 20, 2013 are examples of why we were awarded the nickname.  We still talk about these tornado outbreaks.  May 3rd still holds the honor of the highest winds ever recorded on the face of the earth, 319 mph.  That will get your attention.  If you weren’t underground that night, you might not have survived in the path of that monster.  It sucked the concrete foundations of homes out of the ground. Luckily we don’t have those often or the state would be deserted.

Last night we had tornados in the state.  A small one in the southwest corner of the state destroyed some homes, there were no deaths.  That is how we count a win, no deaths.  Tomorrow is supposed to be some of the same.  The meteorologists say the atmosphere is unstable.  When warm air meets cold air, there is bound to be a battle.  And when the land is flat and there is nothing to stop the wind, a battle ensues.  Tornados love the plains and will sometimes touch down on a turnpike and follow the path of least resistance. 

But today is beautiful!  The sun is so bright it makes it hard to see.  The air is clean and crisp due to the rains last night.  No damage at least in this area and we are preparing for tomorrow.  May is always the most active month.  In Oklahoma the other thing that is a constant is wheat harvest in June.  You can be sure that it will rain all through harvest and then not another drop until October when storms can start all over again.

But adversity brings people together.  My son says he’s leaving the state, my sister already has.  But the places they go have problems of their own – snowstorms and avalanches, blistering heat and haboob sandstorms that will peel the paint off your car – or your body if you’re caught out in them.

I think I’ll stay home where I know what to expect.  I’m too old to move and start again.  Bring it on, Mother Nature, we can take it.

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2019 Life-long Learning: Keystone Lake series

    Erin grew up on Keystone Lake and the little town of Mannford, Oklahoma in northeast Oklahoma.  It was an idyllic life for her and her mother until her father died on a cross-country trip.  Then the two became even closer.  Her mother owned a flower shop until the big corporate grocery store with their own floral department ran her out of business. Then she went to work for them.  If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em. But Erin’s mother raised her daughter in the small town where she was born and along with help from her sister, a lawyer in Tulsa, the women not only survived but thrived.

Erin worked for her mother at the flower shop after school and on weekends as she waited to graduate and attend college at TU to earn a law degree – like her aunt.  It is a long way from a small town and flower shop to the second largest city in the state and the Tulsa County Courthouse.  But Erin would make it. She had a support system with her mother, aunt and friends.  She was smart and she was determined.

Then she was sexually harassed at the senior prom.  Accepting a date from Todd, a cute boy she barely knew in school, like Cinderella, she borrowed a dress and ran off to a fairytale date only to be made fun of.  She should have gone with her friends.

Determined to put the prom behind her and move on to college, Erin got a part time job working in her aunt’s law firm on days she didn’t attend class and life was good. Erin was growing up fast learning to balance life, school, and a new job.

While in college she began to hear stories about the cute boy who drove the Alpha Romeo Spider to class. Girls talk and the things they said were not good.  Todd’s treatment of his dates escalated and what used to be pressure for sex became rape and beatings.

Erin decided she had to put an end to Todd’s reign of terror. He confronted her more than once on campus. And when he thought she was a threat to his lifestyle he told her to stay out of his business.  Then her best friend disappeared.

Blooming Justice is the first book in the Keystone Lake series.  Check it out on Amazon, Barnes & Noble and fine bookstores everywhere.

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2019 Life-long Learning: OWFI 2019

    Home from OWFI conference I am exhausted.  I always feel this way after spending a weekend with like minds from all over. It was exhilarating and exhausting at the same time. I renewed old friendships and made some new ones.  It’s Sunday and I am supposed to put out my blog.  I will try, but I am tired. 

I assisted a speaker, Rene Gutteridge, from Oklahoma City as she spoke about writing film scripts. Before the conference was over we got our hand signals straight as I sat in the back telling her how much time was left. The great IT team fixed our mic when I tried to in introduce Rene and my voice ended up being heard in another room. 

I got caught in a thunderstorm and the great staff of Embassy Suites sent a van to pick us up.  It was only about a block and a half to the restaurant, so we walked over thinking the clouds were not close. But it’s spring in Oklahoma, so you know . . .

I begged for centerpieces for the Friday night banquet so much that I ended up with too many and they spilled onto the Saturday night banquet.

My phone said I walked almost 4 miles on Friday all over Embassy Suites and up and down stairs with centerpieces and to attend workshops. My old legs kept me up with leg cramps that night.

I missed the workshop given by Meg Gardiner because of a schedule conflict.  I really wanted to see that one.

I picked up certificates for members of my local club who won honors at the writing conference. I ate too much. 

But Sunday morning I got a chance to eat breakfast with some old friends and my editor from The Wild Rose Press.  We had all began to let down a little.  It was fun catching up with them. It takes a village to put on a writer’s workshop.  Now we decide what we can do better for next year.

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