2016 Cultivating Gratitude: Ecuador Relief Fund

Spirt night 1    My friend, Cynthia Martinez and her husband Eduardo, grew up in Ecuador.  She still has friends and family there and the latest rounds of earthquakes were too real for her.  She had to do something to help out the people she knew.  She contacted one co-worker of her husband’s in Ecuador who spent several days covered up with debris before he was rescued, and then sent the rescuers back in after other survivors.  It was all too close to home for her.  And when Cynthia puts her mind to something, it happens. 

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She contacted her friends at Oklahoma Bible Academy and in conjunction with Chick-fil-A in Enid a relief fund was born.  They set up a silent auction and Spirit Night at Chick-fil-A.  A portion of proceeds from the food that was sold inside the restaurant, and all proceeds from the auction, were given to the relief fund.  She hustled donations from many different businesses and everyone was happy to give.

Cynthia coordinated the OBA/Chick-fil-A Spirit Night with a church in Ecuador to be certain the funds were used for the people of Ecuador who were in need. I never heard a final amount that was accumulated, but the restaurant was standing room only and I took my food to go.  People stood in line to sign up for the silent auction and the people of Enid’s generosity benefited those in need in Ecuador.  spirit night 3

I am happy to have been a part of this effort and to have a friend like Cynthia.

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2016 Cultivating Gratitude: Grateful for Crazy Weekends

wedding flowers    I’m exhausted and very happy this morning.  It occurred to me I had not put out the weekly blog because my weekend was a whirlwind of activity.  I drove to Oklahoma City both Saturday and Sunday and I think my age is showing.

My niece is getting married and she asked me to make her wedding flowers.  I’m grateful to have been asked and to have a family to do things with.  In my younger years I was a florist and I still dabble.  I can’t make fresh flower bouquets because I have nowhere to store them but since the wedding isn’t until September, I can work on silk a little at a time and keep them in the plastic tub she gave me.  I think they will be lovely: white hydrangeas and roses. It will be a fall wedding using emerald green and gold.

I left the house early to pick up my sister and we drove to Edmond to meet the niece.  Then off to hit all the flower sales.  We are nothing if not thrifty.  Sometime around 6 pm my husband texted to ask if I was coming home that day.

Sunday I again drove to Oklahoma City this time to meet my daughter.  We had plans for a pedicure and lunch.  It seems we don’t find time to get together like we used to and my toes were in need a spring cleaning. It is almost sandal season.  toes

The last wedding flowers I made was 20 years ago for my daughter.  My sister and I discussed that on the way to Oklahoma City and I suddenly remembered that spring.  My parents had a 50th wedding anniversary in April at my house.  We were in the process of buying and selling a house when my daughter came in with an engagement ring announcing she was getting married in a month. I managed to put her off for two months.  I made her wedding dress – started it at one house and finished it at the new one.  We moved in May and then had a wedding in June.

That was an eventful spring, but I was younger.  I couldn’t do three large events in three months these days.

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2016 Cultivating Gratitude: Perry Carnegie Library

Perry library outside  Wednesday I was asked to be a part of the Perry Carnegie Library’s annual fundraiser hosted by the Progress Club as a featured author (https://www.facebook.com/perry.carnegie?fref=ts).  Along with author Shelley Malicote-Stutchman we visited with the patrons of the library, librarians, and members of the community. We were told we would go down in history as the first authors to be featured in the library.  I hope we won’t be the last.  connie peggy shelley_n

The lovely library has maintained its original architecture all the while being updated and new carpet.  Perry Library   But the library may look original, it is as up to date as any in the country with e-published and audio books, not to mention access to the internet and online research.  Perry Library (2)

I grew up at a Carnegie library – though the one in Enid has been razed.  I loved walking up the stairs with my sisters in summer when school was out, and breathing deep the smell of aging paper and ink.  It was like stepping back in time. How many stories does it hold and how many minds researched or invented those stories?

I can’t wait to go back to the library in Perry, Oklahoma.  I hope to be invited back soon and we can hold a workshop for budding writers. 

Thank you for thinking of me, Perry Carnegie Library!

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2016 Cultivating Gratitude: Magic

canopy    Viking Fest!  I love the Heavener Runestone Viking and Celtic Festival.  It is held twice a year at the Heavener Runestone Park in southeast Oklahoma.  The forest is always beautiful in April and October and it takes on an even more magical aura with the changing of the seasons.

The legend of the area is that Vikings came down the east coast of what is now the United States a thousand years ago, rounded the tip of Florida into the Gulf of Mexico, up the Mississippi river and its tributaries to land in the beautiful valley of the Ouachita Mountains.  They carved on a heavy sandstone slab that still stands at the bottom of the valley.  The ancient runic Futhark language is not spoken today, which lends even more to the mystery of the place.  Some think the stone was carved naming the valley for Glome, the man who carved it, stating Glome’s valley.

My husband and I spent two days in the park set up as a vendor among many.  I sold my book, titled Glome’s Valley, alongside wonderful food trucks, blacksmiths, jewelry makers, sword makers, fabulous fabrics, and many other Viking inspired crafts.  scarf

There were loads of people at the festival, some in full Viking regalia, others with the kids and dogs enjoying the weather.  There may have been trolls.   trolls  We had a moth visit our tent most of Saturday and then finally fly away to freedom before it was stepped on. moth

Plan to come down to the next one in October.  Bring the kids, dress up, (or not) and soak up the magic forest.  Breath deep the ancient legends and have a good time.

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Going Full Circle

luciesmoker's avatarLucie Smoker

(Photo above is in the cafe at Full Circle Books.)

Scissortail was just great.  It’s this quiet, but crowded literary fest filled with a bunch of professors and literary editors sharing their own words.  And they are AWESOME. Each poet or author reads their own work for 15-20 minutes. A couple of my faves were Brent Newsome, Mary Anna Evans and Elizabeth Raby. (Okay, that was 3.) The ratio of poets to prose writers is about 20 to 1.  imageMasterfully curated by Ken Hada, the selections contrast and coordinate like a stimulating mental dance.  Exhilarating.  It brings out each unique, literary voice. Thank you Ken, Oklahoma Arts Council, East Central University and everyone who came. I feel grateful to be included and so inspired!

imageNext up: I’m reading and signing at Full Circle Books in Edmond, OK in April 17th at 2pm.  I’m sharing the mic with a few other poets…

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2016 Cultivating Gratitude: The Heavener Runestone Viking & Celtic Festival

Erin    I am grateful this week that the Heavener Runestone Park has invited me back to the Viking and Celtic Festival April 9 & 10.  They hold the festival twice a year, April and October.  I met some wonderful people last fall and can’t wait to get back again.  One of them was Park Manager Erin Bruesch.

If you don’t know about the park it is in Heavener, OK 15 miles south of Poteau in southeast Oklahoma.  It is near the beautiful Talimena Drive; and a great place to take the kids and hike the hills and valleys.  But the best part is the sandstone monolith with ancient carving.  Some say it was carved by Vikings long before Columbus.  Whether you believe that or not, it is a magical place where I set the book Glome’s Valley.

I found Erin last fall when I arrived at the park looking for my vendor slot.  I set up a canopy for the weekend while she roamed relentlessly over the park solving problems and making everyone feel welcome. She is a great asset to the city-owned park and is determined to get the word out about the historical significance of the park and its stone.

PC—Erin, tell us about your background. Who you are, where you are from?

EB – I grew up in a small town in Southwest Minnesota. My father is a farmer and my mother is a school teacher. I am the middle child of three with two brothers. Every summer our family took a cross country road trip. We traveled to about half of the United States as well as Canada, Mexico, Ecuador and Germany. I have an associate’s degree in Fluid Power Technology and I’m ¾ through a bachelor’s degree in mechanical engineering. If I could do it again, I would have gone into forestry.

PC–What do you love most about your job?

EB – The people I meet all have a unique story. I meet people from throughout the United States as well as all over the world. Since July I’ve met people from more than ten countries. Living at the park is pretty awesome, too. Although, I don’t spend as much time hiking as I had anticipated. If you haven’t experienced the view from Poteau Mountain, you should. People come to the park every evening to enjoy the sunset.

PC–What prompted you to take the job at the park?

EB – I heard about the job from a friend. I spent quite a few hours visiting with Karry, the previous park manager. At first I thought that this was more of a dream job and that I needed a job with health insurance and a 401k. However, an opportunity like this doesn’t come along every day. My husband is from Heavener. It’s just fun to be a part of this park and community in this way.

PC – What do you hope to achieve with the festival this year?  Next year?

EB – Bigger. The festival has grown every year and we still have room for more. Most of the vendors and performers are return guests, but every year we get a few new ones. We have about 20-30 vendors and 1000 or so patrons who attend. We also are reaching out to a greater area through social media as well as radio and newspapers. There are still local people who don’t really know what the festival is all about. It’s the best venue in Heavener.

PC—Do you believe that Vikings were in Oklahoma before Columbus first visited this continent? Why or why not?

EB – I could write a book on this question, as many people have. Coming from Minnesota, where Viking is in every child’s vocabulary, of course I believed in Viking travel at least in Canada and the north central and north east United States. When I came to Oklahoma in 2011, Heavener Runestone Park was one of the first places I visited. To be honest, I was as skeptical as anyone. When I took this job I decided that I would learn everything I could about runic writing and decipher the translation myself. Unfortunately, the Futhark is such an ancient and foreign form of writing that it is not a simple task. Even Runeologists and Linguists have some discrepancies in the translation. Regardless, the more research I do the more possible it seems that Vikings may have traveled here to this very spot. The location of the stone, which is in the small mountain creek bed not far from the Poteau River, would have been travelable by Viking boats. The bottom line is that if Earth is 4 billion years old, or even 4 thousand years old, it is not likely that foreign visitors didn’t arrive until 1492.

PC–Tell us about the Heavener Runestone Viking and Celtic Festival.  Who attends and who should attend?

EB – Whether you’re a history buff or Viking enthusiast or not, the festival is for anyone, any age. We have 5 musical groups and birds of prey show on main stage. At the battle ground you can experience scripted and non-scripted fights. People can try their hand at axe throwing and various games. The blacksmiths fire up their coal forges and make custom knives, swords, roses and other trinkets. Our vendors sell everything from Viking period clothing and accessories to armor and swords to jewelry of all kinds. There really is something for everyone.

PC–How can people interested in the park contact you?

EB – Facebook is a great this for this park. We share information about upcoming events and encourage visitors to share their photos and experience here at the park. Search Heavener Runestone Park. We also have a segment on TravelOK.com that we keep updated. Call us at the office 7 days a week from 8am 5pm or email at heavenerrunestonepark@gmail.com.

The Viking and Celtic Fest is April 9 & 10, 2016.  Come out to the park and bring the family.  You’re sure to find something that peaks your interest and the kids will love it. There are food trucks or you can bring your own picnic for a day in the forest.  See you there!

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2016 CULTIVATING GRATITUDE: Freedom

flying-balloons    I think I’m at that stage in life where I give up.  Not on life, but on things I once thought important.  They weren’t.  I am finally free to be myself. 

I don’t have to go to work on Monday – but I don’t have as much money to spend on things I don’t need anyway. It is time to clean out some junk and live more minimally.

I don’t need to get into THOSE jeans anymore – but I still need to lose weight to be healthy. Less red meat and more veggies/fruit.

I don’t need three sets of china (Mom’s, Mother-in-Law’s and   mine) and my every day dishes – but I doubt the kids want them either. Family dinners are overrated. Families are not.

And I’m at the stage in life where I want to take on new things, hoping they are worth it.

I want to see Scotland/Ireland/England –  but hiking is a distant memory with arthritis. I’ll have to learn to drive on the wrong side of the road or let someone else do it.

I want the wind in my hair –  but I don’t want that convertible anymore. They sit too low and there’s no place for your stuff.

I want to leave the legacy of my stories –  but I don’t expect to be a best seller.  Instead I am learning the art of writing and the feeling of the muse that encourages me – sometimes.

Life is long and enduring, all the while it is quick as the blink of an eye.  I will never be able to do all the things I want to do – but I don’t have to be pulled down by the things I don’t want to do.  That is what true freedom is.  It is time to look forward, not back and do things differently with what time is left; and be grateful for it.

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2016 CULTIVATING GRATITUDE: Grateful for 40 Years of Crap

Brass  I have 40 plus years of crap.  I’m not talking about my husband or the relationship, but the amount of stuff we’ve accumulated over our marriage.  This June we will be married 44 years and the house is beginning to look like it.  We’ve owned only two homes in our life together and moved a total of four times.  You should move more often than that – I think it should be a requirement to move at least every ten years to get rid of excess baggage.

I am helping a niece with her wedding this fall and offered to let her use the brass in the picture IF, and it was a big IF, I could clean it up and get rid of 40 years of tarnish.  It actually worked!  Who knew that the small threat of not being able to use the brass would get me in gear and polishing.

I sent the niece a picture of the newly gleaming brass and my sister wanted to know where that came from.  She had seen it a million times on my mantel.  I called it antique metal (patina has a nice ring to it).  “Let’s see,” I said.  “Two candlesticks and the cups I rescued from your trash can when you moved and said you didn’t have room for it.  I THINK the bowl came from the florist with a centerpiece from Mom and Dad’s 50th wedding anniversary, and the rest I bought from an estate sale.”  No, I’m not a hoarder.  I’m a collector (and obviously not a polisher).

The good news is the brass will grace the food table at the wedding.  The better news is that they FINALLY were polished after all these years.  Maybe they weren’t crap after all.

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2016 CULTIVATING GRATITUDE: A Sequel

pillow  Writers are crazy.  Or maybe we are just slightly off-balanced.  It could be that we are just obsessed with books and the written word.  Writing is a lonely job that only one person can do – at least until the editing phase.  We place ourselves into our own little world and don’t come out until the job is done, the story is told.

I know that writers are crazy because where else can you make up lies and then sell them to your neighbors?  (I’m talking about fiction of course, hopefully non-fiction is not based on lies.)

My daughter gave me this pillow for my birthday, probably to warn the world about my obsession, or maybe because she believes in me and my story-telling.  Either way, it fits nicely in the recliner where I write and reminds me of my purpose in life.

I’ve been working diligently on the sequel to Secrets of Sandhill Island that I call Stones of Sandhill Island.  It involves some of the same characters from the original book and some new ones.  Billie Stone is a jazz singer who now sings on the weekends at Le Chez restaurant.  She is delicate and damaged emotionally since the death of her family, but she is not useless.  Her mother with Parkinson’s depends upon her daily as do the patrons of the restaurant where she sings the blues of the famous Billie Holiday, her name sake.  But she has more courage than she knows when she pulls Neil from his depression over a failed marriage, shows Carol she has the courage to stand up to the world, and even takes in a stray dog with a litter of puppies.  Billie is not useless, just delicate and growing stronger by the day. Joe Franks will find her a formidable enemy when he tries to blame her for the accident he caused that took her family.

Stones of Sandhill Island will hopefully be out this year.  I hope you enjoy it, and be careful, I might put you in the book and kill you.  Writers are crazy.

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2016 CULTIVATING GRATITUDE: Grateful for a First Chance

cover    Pulp fiction is an acquired taste, I tell the readers looking at the books on my table. Some love it and others don’t.  But I am grateful to Airship 27 for publishing my first book, The Apocalypse Sucks.  They gave me a chance and I am forever grateful. The book is a story about friendship and survival in a world gone mad.  But then, the Apocalypse probably would suck.

Sandra and Molly were unlikely sisters – not sisters in the biological sense, but in the sense they were family and would die for each other.  Hopefully they wouldn’t have to.  But it was a brave new world with strange creatures, not enough food, no stocked shopping malls, and men were at a minimum. Humanity, however, was still the same with all the old fears of others that don’t look or act like them.  Some things don’t change.  When the virus struck, many people died.  Those who survived, were changed forever.  A few never got sick, but they were not as lucky as they thought.  They still had to survive.

The book has a myriad of characters all with the same goal – survival.  But humanity needs to not only survive, they need to thrive and they will if they learn to live together.  I love dark humor and made fun of the “end of the world” dystopian stories that are always out there.  But The Apocalypse Sucks has another twist, it is not just silly, it holds a mirror up to all of us and our fears, love and need for survival.

airship I hope you like reading it as much as I loved writing it.  Airship 27 Productions was kind enough to give a rookie author a chance and assigned two very talented artists to illustrate it.  Andy Fish developed the color cover and Zachary Brunner the six inside black and white illustrations.  The publisher always pairs the artists with the author and a piece of literature is born; literature of the pulp fiction type.

Then they went one step further, The Apocalypse Sucks is now available in audio format from Amazon.  Check it out. You can have someone else read to you as you multitask, or read it curled up with a cup of hot chocolate in paperback or Kindle format.  Let me know if you like it, even if you are not a fan of pulp fiction.  I’d love to hear from you.

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