2019 Life Long Learning: Learning to be a Father

    I’ve been married to the same man for 47 years.  Yes, we are spring chickens. He became a father maybe before he was ready, but he was thrilled both times.  We had two children when we were young, and then quit having kids when we were still young.  One of each and the bedrooms were filled up, so we quit.  But they were the light of our lives.  We didn’t have a penny to our names, and they were the entertainment. We learned to be parents.

Today he is a grandfather and still hanging around with us.  The kids have kids and lives of their own, but we see them as often as possible.

Tomorrow we’re cooking hamburgers and hotdogs (his request) with as many of the family as we can get here.  Everyone is busy. I’ll bake him a cake in the morning and share it with the other fathers in our family. Cake from a box and hotdogs – nuthin’ but the best!  But it’s what he wants. He’s easy to please when it comes to food.  That is good since I’m not a world renown chef.

He mowed the grass today and we’ll cook the burgers and dogs on the grill.  Not much has changed in the last 47 years.  He still likes the simple things.

Happy Father’s Day to the father of my children.  And happy Father’s Day to all the fathers out there. 

What are you doing for Father’s Day?

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2019 Life-Long Learning: Author Laura Boon – Tenses and Tennis

   My guest this morning is Laura Boon.  She hails from Sydney, Australia, though she’s lived all over the world.  Laura is a fellow “Rose” writing romance for The Wild Rose Press.  Please help me in welcoming, Laura Boon!

Hi Peggy, thanks for hosting me on your blog today.

I just finished reading American Witch* by Thea Harrison. According to one of the protagonists, the secret to their villain’s eternal youth is his theft of other witches’ power. Fortunately contemporary scientists offer us another alternative, at least as far as a youthful mind is concerned. The secret to staying as sharp as a tack is life-long learning. Apparently learning new stuff develops new neural pathways and connections and provides the best defense against dementia. So next time you’re having a really wretched day, knee-deep in stuff you don’t understand, think about what great exercise your brain is getting and smile.

I immigrated in my forties – and then decided to finally, finally settle my butt in a chair and write the stories I had always dreamed of penning. I felt like I was frying neural pathways rather than building them, but the science says otherwise. I’m going to be very disappointed if I end up suffering from Alzheimers.

Tenses and tennis have run side by side through the roads of my life. English was my favorite subject at school. Tennis is our family sport, and I’ve been playing since I was ten years old. I was a club player not a professional, but one way or the other, I’ve put in a lot of time on the court. In April, I picked up a racket for the first time in six years. I was pleasantly surprised to discover I could still make contact with the ball following my mom’s advise – “Play from memory,” she says if any of us complain about being out of practise. I’m older and slower than I used to be so I’ve had to adapt my game to counteract “mean” opponents set on playing lethal drop shots. On the plus side, I’m less nervous than I used to be – it’s amazing how much more creative and inventive one is when operating from a place of calm curiosity rather than frenetic worry. And how much more fun the journey is.

Experience has taken me down a different path when it comes to pen, paper and keyboard. My anxiety manifested in a different way. In this area, I had no family role models or experts to call upon for help. I could say I haven’t been writing (with publication in mind) for nearly as long as I’ve played tennis, and it’s true that I only started in earnest about seven years ago after a couple of false starts earlier in my life. However, it’s also true that I wrote around my desire for years. Instead of writing fiction, I wrote newsletter copy, press releases and essays, book reviews and non-fiction articles. Calling up the courage to follow my dreams meant learning a bunch of new skills – how to convey character, create plot twists, describe a landscape, and maintain tension to name but a few. It’s been such fun!

“Do something that scares you every day,” they say. Writing scares me. Will I be able to translate what’s in my head onto the page? Will readers enjoy it? It’s a tightrope dance between fear and exhilaration – and it that doesn’t build neural pathways, I don’t know what will.

My new release is the Deerbourne Inn novella Lion Dancing for Love. His love died. Her love cheated. Can two broken hearts learn to trust again?

Licking her wounds after a bad relationship, San Diego accountant Caitlyn Summers travels to Willow Springs to help her friend gear up for the annual Maple Sugar Ball. She isn’t planning on staying long, but one encounter with the delicious Corey Duncan has her re-evaluating her plans.

Corey swore off love when his wife Annie died from breast cancer. Caitlyn is too young, too citified, and vibrates with a passion and energy that will upend the safe, comfortable rhythm of his life. Corey has to choose between playing it safe and taking a risk on love. Caitlyn needs to find the patience to let Corey lead. If not, the Maple Sugar Ball might end in a sticky mess, instead of a slow dance with the man who has captured her heart. Find it at Amazon US and other online retailers. Find me online via my blog or Facebook page and on Twitter, Instagram, GoodReads, Bookbub and Amazon.

Thanks for stopping by and happy reading everyone.

* Highly recommended, especially if you love paranormal romance.

Thank you, Laura and pick up a copy of Lion Dancing for Love – and leave her a review!

 

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2019 Life-Long Learning: The Deerbourne Inn Series

    I recently e-published a novella with The Wild Rose Press, Witches’ Cliff, along with several other very talented authors. So far I count 11 novellas set at the same Vermont inn all with different stories to tell. I’m sure there are more to come.

Originally the publisher put out a call for novellas with a setting in mind.  Any genre was welcome and any of their stable of authors could pitch their idea for their stories.  I was lucky enough to be one of the ones chosen to add to the story of the inn.  The fun part about it is seeing all the ideas other authors came up with.  There are fantasy stories, romance, suspense, historical fiction and others.  It is amazing what one little inn can conjure up over the years.

The Deerbourne Inn series is available in electronic format only and you can find it on Amazon, Kobo, Barnes & Noble, and iBooks, Here is a link to The Wild Rose Press website to see all the books so far.  Click on the one you like, and it will take you to Amazon where you can purchase it for only $1.99. https://www.thewildrosepress.com/deerbourne-inn-series

Witches’ Cliff is a fantasy set at Halloween about a modern-day woman and her connection to the witch trials of the past.  There are so many stories you may have trouble choosing which ones to read.

Check out the Deerbourne Inn series and see what you think.  As always leave a review if you enjoy the story.

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2019 Life-Long Learning: The Oklahoma Standard

    I’ve gotten off the track of life-long learning in the last few weeks, but I feel I learn something new every day.  So, to get back on track, I wanted you to know I am trying to learn to write poetry.  Now that’s putting myself out there to say something like that on the internet where nothing ever really goes away.  But I have some help.  I have the Enid Writers Club and one poet in particular, Jim Arnold, who is always trying to encourage me to write poetry.  He has even gone so far as to write prose to show that old dogs can learn new tricks.

So, I’ve tried.  The word tried should be all in caps.  Here it is.  Let me have it!  Help me critique this thing of beauty (ha!).  Lately with the weather I’ve had some inspiration.

The Oklahoma Standard

Redbuds glow fuchsia across prairies of cedar and wildflowers,

Rust cliffs ooze mud above emerald wheat and lemon-yellow canola.

But the colors of the prairie pale in comparison to the spirit of the people.

The Oklahoma standard is not just neighbor helping neighbor after a tornado,

But the never-fold spirit is the norm every day on every corner,

Bright as an Oklahoma prairie after a rain.

What do you think?  I need to go back to school, right?  I really don’t know much about poetry, there are so many kinds.  I think this is free verse.

But as I said with the weather in the last few weeks – tornados, flooding, bridges and dams collapsing or being damaged – I still believe in the Oklahoma standard.  We are a resilient people.  We have to be.  I came to Enid, Oklahoma from the bootheel of Missouri when I was seven years old.  We came in the middle of a hot, dry August and mother cried as we pulled into town.  Where were the green rolling hills she’d grown up in.  Mom and Dad were from northeast Arkansas and hadn’t moved very far from home to Missouri.  But they learned to love this place as I have. 

So, wrote a poem.  I’m a writer, that’s what I do.  It is a good outlet for all the shock and awe I’ve seen lately.  I have learned a lot in the years I’ve been on this planet and the most important thing I’ve learned is to pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and start all over – because you will fall again and again.  And while you’re at it, help the guy next to you. It is the Oklahoma standard.

Help me with the poetry.

 

 

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2019 Life-Long Learning: Tornado Season – Oklahoma’s Fifth Season

    Spring in Oklahoma!  If you’ve lived here long, or even if you haven’t, you know why Oklahoma was given the nickname “Tornado Alley.”  Some years are worse than others.  The above picture is a free stock photo, not my own.  I am not one of the Oklahoman’s who run out to video tornadoes as they sail over. I have great respect for the giants. The funnel pictured above could cause damage, but at least it isn’t a mile wide like some have been and it appeared with enough daylight to see it, not in the dark.

This weekend has been eventful in some places. May 3, 1999 and May 20, 2013 are examples of why we were awarded the nickname.  We still talk about these tornado outbreaks.  May 3rd still holds the honor of the highest winds ever recorded on the face of the earth, 319 mph.  That will get your attention.  If you weren’t underground that night, you might not have survived in the path of that monster.  It sucked the concrete foundations of homes out of the ground. Luckily we don’t have those often or the state would be deserted.

Last night we had tornados in the state.  A small one in the southwest corner of the state destroyed some homes, there were no deaths.  That is how we count a win, no deaths.  Tomorrow is supposed to be some of the same.  The meteorologists say the atmosphere is unstable.  When warm air meets cold air, there is bound to be a battle.  And when the land is flat and there is nothing to stop the wind, a battle ensues.  Tornados love the plains and will sometimes touch down on a turnpike and follow the path of least resistance. 

But today is beautiful!  The sun is so bright it makes it hard to see.  The air is clean and crisp due to the rains last night.  No damage at least in this area and we are preparing for tomorrow.  May is always the most active month.  In Oklahoma the other thing that is a constant is wheat harvest in June.  You can be sure that it will rain all through harvest and then not another drop until October when storms can start all over again.

But adversity brings people together.  My son says he’s leaving the state, my sister already has.  But the places they go have problems of their own – snowstorms and avalanches, blistering heat and haboob sandstorms that will peel the paint off your car – or your body if you’re caught out in them.

I think I’ll stay home where I know what to expect.  I’m too old to move and start again.  Bring it on, Mother Nature, we can take it.

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2019 Life-long Learning: Keystone Lake series

    Erin grew up on Keystone Lake and the little town of Mannford, Oklahoma in northeast Oklahoma.  It was an idyllic life for her and her mother until her father died on a cross-country trip.  Then the two became even closer.  Her mother owned a flower shop until the big corporate grocery store with their own floral department ran her out of business. Then she went to work for them.  If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em. But Erin’s mother raised her daughter in the small town where she was born and along with help from her sister, a lawyer in Tulsa, the women not only survived but thrived.

Erin worked for her mother at the flower shop after school and on weekends as she waited to graduate and attend college at TU to earn a law degree – like her aunt.  It is a long way from a small town and flower shop to the second largest city in the state and the Tulsa County Courthouse.  But Erin would make it. She had a support system with her mother, aunt and friends.  She was smart and she was determined.

Then she was sexually harassed at the senior prom.  Accepting a date from Todd, a cute boy she barely knew in school, like Cinderella, she borrowed a dress and ran off to a fairytale date only to be made fun of.  She should have gone with her friends.

Determined to put the prom behind her and move on to college, Erin got a part time job working in her aunt’s law firm on days she didn’t attend class and life was good. Erin was growing up fast learning to balance life, school, and a new job.

While in college she began to hear stories about the cute boy who drove the Alpha Romeo Spider to class. Girls talk and the things they said were not good.  Todd’s treatment of his dates escalated and what used to be pressure for sex became rape and beatings.

Erin decided she had to put an end to Todd’s reign of terror. He confronted her more than once on campus. And when he thought she was a threat to his lifestyle he told her to stay out of his business.  Then her best friend disappeared.

Blooming Justice is the first book in the Keystone Lake series.  Check it out on Amazon, Barnes & Noble and fine bookstores everywhere.

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2019 Life-long Learning: OWFI 2019

    Home from OWFI conference I am exhausted.  I always feel this way after spending a weekend with like minds from all over. It was exhilarating and exhausting at the same time. I renewed old friendships and made some new ones.  It’s Sunday and I am supposed to put out my blog.  I will try, but I am tired. 

I assisted a speaker, Rene Gutteridge, from Oklahoma City as she spoke about writing film scripts. Before the conference was over we got our hand signals straight as I sat in the back telling her how much time was left. The great IT team fixed our mic when I tried to in introduce Rene and my voice ended up being heard in another room. 

I got caught in a thunderstorm and the great staff of Embassy Suites sent a van to pick us up.  It was only about a block and a half to the restaurant, so we walked over thinking the clouds were not close. But it’s spring in Oklahoma, so you know . . .

I begged for centerpieces for the Friday night banquet so much that I ended up with too many and they spilled onto the Saturday night banquet.

My phone said I walked almost 4 miles on Friday all over Embassy Suites and up and down stairs with centerpieces and to attend workshops. My old legs kept me up with leg cramps that night.

I missed the workshop given by Meg Gardiner because of a schedule conflict.  I really wanted to see that one.

I picked up certificates for members of my local club who won honors at the writing conference. I ate too much. 

But Sunday morning I got a chance to eat breakfast with some old friends and my editor from The Wild Rose Press.  We had all began to let down a little.  It was fun catching up with them. It takes a village to put on a writer’s workshop.  Now we decide what we can do better for next year.

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2017 Life-Long Learning: Learning to Live With Allergies

    I’ve always been active and able to do what I wanted.  I know I’m not getting any younger but my allergies have been terrible this year.  I’ve had a stopped-up ear for over three weeks now, gone to the doctor, gotten a steroid shot and changed my allergy medications. Something needs to give. I want to work in my garden!

The iris are blooming and so is the nutsedge in the front!  I’ve tried spraying it and so far it is green and lush.  I know not to pull it.  Master Gardeners say it only activates the roots and it grows more. But it is healthy and I’m not.

I long to get out and finish cleaning out my flower beds.  I have two new tomato plants that need more sun but trimming the trees behind them seems impossible at this time.  Maybe they came to the wrong house to live this year. I don’t like old age and being told what I can and can’t do. 

Next week is the OWFI conference in Oklahoma City and writers from four states and beyond come to join like minds. I have more than one job to do at this conference and I am looking forward to it.  I can’t poop out! 

I should grab a mic and start singing “I Will Survive!” Maybe that would scare the allergies away.

How is your spring going?

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2019 Lifetime Learning: Witches’ Cliff Releasing April 24

    When The Wild Rose Press decided on another collaborative writing event for their authors, I thought what fun to give a topic and everyone write something different for it.  I was right!  The idea was to take a setting with a few main characters and all the different authors, with all their different writing styles and genres, and have a ball with it. And we did.

The publishing company came up with the rules of the make-believe place (that’s what fiction is after all) and we all had ideas about how it looked and what feelings we got from the setting.  We were to write around different holidays at the same Vermont inn.  I chose Halloween.  I love to write fantasy (as well as other things) and I thought everyone else would choose Christmas.

So far I’ve read three of the novellas and loved seeing how many different ideas came from one setting.

Witches’ Cliff, releasing this week on April 24, 2019, is a fantasy about a modern-day witch with an age-old problem.  Somethings never change.  Penny goes to the Deerbourne Inn over Halloween weekend to seek advice from an ancestor.  Her ten times great grandmother was put to death during the Salem Witch Trials and since Penny has no relatives to talk to, she decides to conjure up her grandmother.  She has a question that maybe the woman can answer. And since it is Halloween, it is a good time to get in touch with the dead.

Check out Witches’ Cliff and the other Deerbourne Inn series – e-published only.  Novellas tell a story in a short amount of time.  You can easily finish one in a weekend.  They are normally around 100 pages – a short novel or long short story.

Witches’ Cliff and the Deerbourne Inn series are available on Kindle, Nook, Kobo and other e-published formats.  https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07PNK8QMT?pf_rd_p=f3acc539-5d5f-49a3-89ea-768a917d5900&pf_rd_r=KGKMJQCRCRMWVFT3CSGE.

What are you reading this weekend?

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2019 Life-Long Learning: Drenched at the Runestone Park

    It was the best of times; it was the worst of times.  Oh, that’s already been done. But it sums up this weekend fairly well.  It was the weekend of the biannual Heavener Runestone Viking Fest at the Heavener Runestone Park in Oklahoma.  I’ve been a part of this event for several years now but this year Mother Nature did not approve. I should have asked her first.

Please let me explain how much I love this park and the lore that surrounds it.  I wrote two books about it and I love to set up in the pristine forest and breath deeply the magic that surrounds it.  But not this weekend.  The weatherman kept saying Saturday would be an indoor day.  That was an understatement.  Why couldn’t he have been wrong this time?

We got to the mountain Friday evening, tired from the four-and-a-half-hour drive and were planning to set up the canopy the night before.  But we were unsure if we would be there the next morning due to the potential rain.  You can’t set up paperback books under a 10 x 10 canvas canopy in the rain. And it was cold.  My husband and I aren’t getting any younger and both of us struggle climbing uphill (and the entire park is uphill).  So, with arthritis meds in hand we came for the weekend anyway.  I so love the forest. 

We went to the weekend cabin we’d rented and met the cousins who drive up from Texas to join us each time we make this trek.  Thank God for company.  Saturday it poured all day long. Just to find something to do, we looked up wineries in the area and drove into Paris, Arkansas in the rain to a tasting room. Cowie Wine Cellars www.cowiewinecellars.com  was lovely – even in the rain – and we might have bought some to bring back with us. On the way back the GPS took us over unfamiliar territory in the deluge with skies so dark it looked like midnight and we were almost involved in a wreck on a two-lane rural Arkansas road.

It continued to rain all day and into the night.  We munched on snacks back at the cabin to avoid getting back out for a meal. 

Sunday – after a sleepless night trying to decide what to do about the festival – we awoke to cold and drizzle.  The yard outside our cabin was standing in ankle deep water in places.    It would be too cold and muddy to set up at the festival for those of us not as young as we used to be.  Cold, wet and disillusioned, once again we avoided the mountain.  We met for breakfast and the cousins headed back toward Texas and we packed the car for home.  I hate that I missed it, but I don’t think nature meant for me to be there this year.  I miss the forest and telling people about the magic of the place. 

I’m sorry, Heavener Runestone Park.  I’m not as hale and hardy as I once was.  I know vendors camped out and stayed on the mountain all weekend.  We didn’t. Another lesson learned about nature and old age.

When we got home to Enid, we found it had barely sprinkled while we were gone.

What did you do this weekend?  Was the weather bad where you were?

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