Today is the first day of winter, the shortest day of the year. It was also my mother’s birthday, so memories come flooding in. We are just a few days until Christmas and all that it entails in our lives.

            Our holiday season has been different this year. I remember my mom not putting up a Christmas tree when she got older, it was too much trouble. This year I understand. I had major surgery and my husband is taking treatments, so our health is not as good as it was in the past. I can’t bend over and decorate the tree, and it is harder for him. So, we didn’t. Instead, I created a Christmas nook with presents piled where the tree should stand. It’s pretty! No lights, but that is not what is important this time of year. We’re together and getting with family in more than one celebration and that is what counts.

            I got together with some friends and we exchanged gifts. We’re planning to see Christmas lights next week. We still have one lingering gift that has not made it in. There’s always the one to worry about. But if it doesn’t make it in time, it will still be given as a gift when it arrives, a little bit late.

            I’ve received several books as gifts. Imagine that, someone thinking I would like a book as a present! They know me well.

            But I am thankful this year to have what I do have, a warm home and family surrounding me. I’m thankful for being able to order gifts and have them delivered since shopping in person was not something I was able to do this year. I’m thankful for dinners with family groups, some in different places, and people who want to be together.

            I hope your Christmas is warm and welcoming. I hope you get to see friends and family and if you don’t have a tree, it is not a problem. What is important is the feelings that go with the season. Welcome them in and enjoy the camaraderie. Merry Christmas.

            What are you reading, writing, or creating this week?